Listening Parents
“Listening Parents” are Catholic parents of a lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender daughter or son who have graciously volunteered to listen to and share their personal experience with other parents. While the Listening Parents do not act as representatives of Fortunate Families, we know them as loving parents. If you contact a Listening Parent by e-mail, please be sure to put “Listening Parents” or “Fortunate Families” on the subject line, as unidentified e-mails may be discarded as junk mail. We welcome any feedback you care to provide on your experience of contacting a Listening Parent.
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Listening Parents
CA/Burbank (Los Angeles ) 91505 Mother of gay sons (2) Cisneros, Armida 818-848-3172; [email protected]; Founded and head a parish support group for Catholic parents of LGBT children; facility in Spanish.
CA/Diamond Bar (Los Angeles) 91765 Mother of gay son Naughton, Jenny [email protected] or 909-896-8362. Involved in Always Our Children a parish-based support group for parents of gay and lesbian Catholics.
CA/Diamond Bar (Los Angeles) 91765 Parents of gay son Plascencia, Javier and Martha [email protected] or [email protected]; 909-860-5950. Members of Always Our Children for past 5 years. Ministry with Lesbian and Gay Catholics for the Los Angeles Archdiocese, Education Committee of same. Translators of all material pertinent to presentations related to LGBT issues from a Catholic perspective. We are both bi lingual English/Spanish.
CA/ Dublin (Oakland)
94568 Mother of lesbian daughter McNamara, Valerie [email protected] PFLAG: Women in God’s Spirit; Retired Marriage/Family Therapist
CA/Fullerton (Orange) 92831 Mother of gay son Hand, Doris [email protected] or 714-871-4815. Member of Koinonia, diocesan ministry to the Catholic gay community. Member of PFLAG Speakers Bureau. Wrote What keeps you in the Church?
CA/Los Angeles (Los Angeles) 90022 Mother of lesbian daughters (2) Manriquez, Rosa, IHM [email protected] or 323-369-4355 Speaker with GLIDE (Gays and Lesbians Initiating a Dialogue for Equality); Hablo espanol; Active lector in my parish; In the past, I have been a catechist, Parish Council member and Eucharistic minister; Member of the Immaculate Heart Community, candidate in discernment with RCWP; on the board of Call to Action; I am an activist for the LGBTQ community. One of my daughters was married during the time that same-sex marriage was legal in California. I have a granddaughter with two mommies. The father of my daughters was gay. I believe in the unconditional love Jesus taught us in the Parable of the Prodigal Son.
CA/Moreno Valley (San Bernardino) 92553 Mother of gay son Madrid, Bette [email protected] or 951-653-9713. Masters in marriage and family therapy. Member of Bishop's Commission on Ministry to Families of Gay and Lesbian Catholics, and facilitator of parents support group.
CA/Palo Alto (San Jose) 94303 Mother of lesbian daughter Idzik, Ann [email protected] of 650-493-7350. Retired educator.
CA/Pleasanton (Oakland) 94566 Father of lesbian daughter Harmuth, Michael [email protected] or 925-426-8848. Fortunate Families board member. Former President and office director of Catholic Association for Lesbian and Gay Ministry (CALGM). Diocesan ministry and PFLAG experience.
CA/Rocklin (Sacramento) 95677 Mother of gay son Kolb, Susan [email protected] or 916-425-0013. Active in PFLAG. Wrote My many blessings
CA/Sacramento (Sacramento) 95816 Mother of lesbian daughters (2) Skonieczny, Kay [email protected] or 916-443-8084 x111. Has two lesbian daughters. Retired parish pastoral minister. Wrote Grace and gratitude abound where love and forgiveness live.
CA/San Francisco (San Francisco) 94112 Father of gay son Cahill, Brian [email protected] or 415-608-6815; Social worker; retired executive director of San Francisco Catholic Charities
CA/San Jose (San Jose) 95122 Parents of gay son Johnson, Helen & Ted [email protected] or 408-210-5518 (Ted) or 408-258-8416 (Helen). Involved in diocesan ministry. PFLAG experience. Helen has HIV/AIDS caregiver experience
CA/Santa Barbara (Los Angeles) 93105 Parents of lesbian daughter Schneider. Joe & Kathie [email protected] or 805-687-4338. Leaders of support group for Catholic parents of LGBT persons
Canada/BC/Vancouver (Vancouver) V3M 1X5 Mother of gay son Murray, Marnie [email protected] or 604-525-5123. Teacher
Canada/ON/Ajax (Toronto) L1T 3K5 Parents of gay son & lesbian daughter Hyland, Mike & Mary [email protected] or 905-686-7106. Mike is parish RCIA coordinator. Mary is step-mother.
Canada/ON/Camlachie (London) N0N 1E0 Parents of gay son Payne, John & Gerry 519-869-4331. Part of parish discussion group.
Canada/ON/Kitchener (Hamilton) N2B 3H1 Parents of gay son Beck, Nick & Sylvia [email protected] or 519-576-6837. Experienced with temporary care and shelter for homeless gay and lesbian youth. Speak Hungarian.
Canada/ON/Sarnia (London) N7T 7H6 Parents of gay son Nichols, Marianne and David [email protected] or 519-869-4024 or Skype (marianne.nichols). Only reachable by email until after August 2. 2010. Teacher. PFLAG experience. [email protected] 519-869-4024 Retired high school teacher; member of Sarnia/Port Huron PFLAG.
CO/Castle Rock (Colorado Springs) 80108 Parents of gay son Conneen, Drew and Kathleen [email protected]; 303-683-1718 Originated a parish support group for families of GBLT; we meet monthly; PFLAG experience as members and parade participants; actively have sought dialogue with Denver archdiocese, most recently by trying to encourage outreach to teens struggling with sexual identity.
CO/Lakewood (Denver) 80232 Mother of transgender m>f daughter Gallagher, Eleanor [email protected] or 303-986-7510
CO/Thornton (Denver) 80035 Father of lesbian daughter McDonough, Robert [email protected] or 303-920-4144. Co-founder of group working with LGBT community and parents to make parish more welcoming.
CT/Middlebury (Hartford) 06762 Mother of lesbian daughter Levine, Marian [email protected] or 602-571-8362. Former teacher, hospice volunteer, PFLAG experience.
CT/Milford (Hartford) 06460 Mother of gay son Mohring, Mary-Ellen maryell[email protected] or 203-874-7365. Involved in local PFLAG chapters. Wrote: A Father's Day Gift for a Mother.
FL/Ft. Myers (Venice) 33912 Mother of gay son Mattras, Paula [email protected] or 239-561-5720 (email checked when traveling). Facilitation experience with parish support group for families of LGBT persons. PFLAG experience. Speaks Czech.
FL/Miami (Miami) 33015 Mother of gay son del Cristo, Rebeca [email protected] or 305-829-9019 (h) or 305-318-2022 (cell). Spanish-speaking. Teacher and Gay-Straight-Alliance club sponsor. PFLAG experience. Spiritual companion.
FL/Palm Coast (St. Augustine) 32137 Parents of gay son Jacobs, Karyn & Jim [email protected] (Karyn) or [email protected] (Jim) or 386-503-1710 (Karyn) or 386-793-7595 (Jim). 12-step support group experience.
GA/Lilburn (Atlanta) 30047 Mother of gay son Farrell, Kathy [email protected] or 770-564-0532. Certificate in Spiritual Formation from Columbia Seminary. Listed in "Friends for the Journey: Spiritual Directors of Middle and North Georgia."
HI/Honolulu (Honolulu) 96186 Mother of gay son Roth, Susie [email protected] or 808-735-1631. Has presented educational sessions on sexual orientation to school faculties, students, and parishes. Advocated at state capitol.
IA/Davenport (Davenport) 52807 Mother of lesbian daughter & gay son Willaert, Andrea [email protected] or 563-359-6133. Masters in Pastoral Studies with an integrated project/thesis on Homosexuality and Catholic Church Teaching. Spiritual Director.
IA/Des Moines (Des Moines) 50315 Parents of gay son Mc Coy, Mary Ann & Bill [email protected] or 512-288-2605. Mary Ann is former director of religious education.
ID/Boise (Boise) 83702 Parents of gay son Curtis, Don & Susan [email protected] or 208-344-3434. Both retired and active in Human Rights organizations. Susan is an RN. Volunteer parish ministers.
ID/Boise (Boise) 83706 Mother of lesbian daughter & gay son Austin-Calkins, Genie [email protected] or 208-331-7941.
IL/Chicago (Chicago) 60626 Parents of lesbian daughter Bowers, Mary Jo & Norm [email protected] or 773-274-1981. Parish ministers. Mary Jo is a social worker. Norm is a psychologist.
IL/ Chicago (Chicago) 60645 Mother of gay son Ellis, Georgie [email protected] or 773-338-4342 Founding member of parish Gay and Lesbian Family and Friends Ministry (GLFF); speaks to groups about my personal journey of recognition and acceptance of my son's orientation as a gay man.
IL/Clarendon Hills (Joliet) 60514 Parents of gay son Frett, Dan & Jackie [email protected] or or 630-920-1444. PFLAG and parish ministry experience. Jackie wrote: Let Me Sow Love; Always Our Children: Accepting God's Plan and the Church's Ministry; Finding our place; Always Our Children: Bulletin insert from Notre Dame Parish; This won't happen again!; Remarkable people, powerful stories
IL/DeKalb (Rockford ) 60115 Parents of lesbian daughter Judkins, Dean and Lori [email protected] 815-909-5406
PFLAG DeKalb County
IL/Harvard (Rockford) 60033 Parents of lesbian daughter Marian, Barbara & Powers, Jerry [email protected] or 815-943-5504. Active in PFLAG.
IL/McHenry (Rockford) 60050 Mother of gay son Weaver, Toni [email protected] or 815-385-9068. MA in theology. PFLAG leader experience. Wrote: Dear (Boulder) Pastor
IN/Evansville (Evansville) 47720 Parents of transgender m>f daughter Covington, Bob and Lisa 812-303-8865, mailto:[email protected] & [email protected] Lisa holds degrees in Pastoral Leadership and Theology; 11 years parish ministry experience; helps coordinate Rainbow Catholics in Christ; involved in PFLAG. Both Bob and Lisa have been involved with the TSA Holiday Project for a number of years and support the TSA Youth Group
IN/South Bend (Ft. Wayne-South Bend) 46637 Parents of gay son Mascotte, Hank & Nancy [email protected] or 574-277-2684. Hank has a lesbian sister. Nancy was a therapist at Saint Mary's College and Notre Dame, and Hank was a Catholic priest. Both facilitate the local PFLAG chapter and are members of the Marianist GLBT outreach team.
IN/South Bend (Ft. Wayne-South Bend) 46614 Parents of gay son & lesbian daughter Garascia, Beth & Tony [email protected] (Tony) or [email protected](Beth) or 574-287-0904. Tony worked for the RC Church in different capacities for 29 years and is now a counselor. Beth is chair of a GLBT issue team for the Marianist Social Justice Collaborative. Both have PFLAG experience. Beth wrote: Pain and possibility: Being a Catholic parent of gay and lesbian children; A place at the Marianist table 2010
Kentucky/Edgewood
(Covington )
41017 Parents of gay son. Kathy & Ed both have a gay son from a prior marriage so each also has a step son who is gay. Buechel, Kathy and Ed Kathy: [email protected] cell: 859-468-2960
Ed: [email protected] cell: 859-653-9291
home: 859-331-2707
Host a support group for parents of LGBT children. This group grew out of a diocesan support group, but is not affiliated with the diocese.
MA/Arlington, (Boston) 02476 Mother of gay son Kean, Patty [email protected] Educational therapist working with students in higher education. Wrote An insight into the Blessed Mother
MA/Needham (Boston) 02492 Parents of gay son Geishecker, Brenda & Jack [email protected] or 781-444-4884. Wrote 2008 open letter to U.S. bishops (and collected other signatures) protesting USCCB and K of C financial support for California Proposition 8.
MA/Quincy (Boston) 02169 Parents of transgender f>m son Garber, Ken & Marcia [email protected] or 617-472-5189. Marcia is RN. Dignity Boston members, with PFLAG experience. Both involved in trans-activism.
MA/W. Springfield (Springfield) 01089 Parents of gay son Franczyk, Ann & Chet [email protected] (Ann) or [email protected] (Chet). 413-736-6803. Co-founders of Always Our Children in W. Springfield, MA. Ann is a nurse practitioner and was a Board member of Fortunate Families. Chet is a pediatrician. They wrote: Always Our Children - Hope amongst the mixed messages.. Ann wrote: Educating Educators
MA/Westborough (Worcester) 01581 Mother of lesbian daughter Malone, Sue [email protected] or 508-366-2050 or 508-330-4558 (cell)
MA/Westborough (Worcester) 01581 Mother of lesbian daughter McCann, Suzanne 508-366-8727 or [email protected] (checks weekly).
MD/Annapolis (Baltimore) 21401 Mother of gay son Pluecker, Claire [email protected] or 410-295-2900 or 240-606-8549 (cell). Has experience with Catholic LGBT and parents ministry groups.
MD/Cambridge (Wilmington) 21613 Parents of gay son Nugent, Jenny & Pat [email protected] or 410-228-8382. Both active with parish social justice committee, parish council and RCIA. Wrote: Dear Bishop Malooly Made video: The Nugent's Story
MD/Gaithersburg (Washington) 20878 Parents of gay son Brady, Robert & Sharon [email protected] or 301-840-9496. Active in parish-based Catholic Ministry with Gay and Lesbian Persons: Opportunity Knocks. Bob has an MA in spirituality and pastoral care, and is a Stephen Ministry leader.
MD/Glen Arm (Baltimore) 21057 Mother of gay son Durkin, Erma [email protected] or 410-592-8453. Many years in Catholic religious education. Active in parish ministry and PFLAG.
MD/Lutherville (Baltimore) 21093 Mother of gay son Hillis, Susan [email protected] or 410-252-3484. PFLAG experience.
MI/Beverly Hills (Detroit) 48025 Parents of lesbian daughter Black, Jerry & Mary [email protected] or 248-644-4479. Members of Always Our Children - Detroit, a panel of parents and LGBT children that tell their stories in churches. Active in PFLAG. Mary wrote A Letter From Meg and narrated "Knowing Makes the Difference" (an audio file - temporarily unavailble).
MI/Detroit (Detroit) 48223 Mother of lesbian daughter & gay son Anderson, Artemae [email protected] or 313-836-2389. Commissioned spiritual director.
MI/Farmington Hills (Detroit) 48331 Parents of gay sons (2) Nelson, Linda Karle & Tom [email protected] (Tom); [email protected] (Linda) 248-489-1505. Linda is President, Fortunate Families and Tom is a board member. Members of Always Our Children, a panel of parents and LGBT children that tell their stories in churches. Involved in PFLAG. Tom wrote: God gave me a gay son for Notre Dame Magazine; Stories make a difference: An activist is born; An activist?; "Letter from a father of a gay son", and narrated "Father Knows Best-Eventually" (audio file - temporarily unavailable).
MI/Gaylord (Gaylord) 49735 Mother of gay son Cotant, Jan [email protected] or 231-546-3421 or 989-858-1267 (cell).
MI/Orchard Lake (Detroit) 48323 Parents of gay son Byrd, Thomas & Teresa [email protected] or 248-681-9311. Thomas is an MD. Teresa is an advanced practice nurse.
MI/Royal Oak (Detroit ) 48073 Mother of lesbian daughter Elwart, Chris [email protected] 248-398-2247; PFLAG experience; psychotherapist
MI/West Bloomfield (Detroit) 48323 Mother of lesbian daughter Le Brun, Pauline [email protected] 248-682-0836 Neonatal Intensive Care Unit- RN retired; also have a gay brother; practicing Catholic, participated in support group for parents of LGBT kids; lesbian daughter now Jewish who is legally married and happily expecting her first child; have educated myself on the civil rights of gay citizens.
MN/Bloomington (St. Paul/Minneapolis) 55431 Father of gay son Burg, Ed [email protected] or 952-881-6170. Stephen Minister trained. Member, Catholic Pastoral Committee for Sexual Minorities in St. Paul MN.
MN/Clearwater (St. Cloud) 55320 Mother of gay son Ohmann, Myrna [email protected] or 320-223-1008 (cell). Fortunate Families board member. Wrote Minneapolis Vigil
MO/Kansas City (Kansas City) 64113 Mother of gay son McGannon, Jessica [email protected] or 816-523-8404 or 913-461-4541 (cell).
MO/St Louis (St Louis) 63110 Mother of Queer Daughter Gerry Rauch [email protected] 314-664-5770
RN; Massage Therapist; I am part of a welcoming parish that strives to include all families. Parishes are not islands and we have struggled with the church's teachings on homosexuality and our own community's lived experiences and acceptance. I strive to be welcoming to all families, especially those who might feel marginalized. On a personal note, my cousin died of AIDS very early in 1986, so this began a journey for our family and helped to foster some dialogue amongst family members.
NC/Charlotte (Charlotte) 28277 Parents of gay son Martel, Ed & Cathy [email protected] or 704-542-6525. PFLAG experience. Diocesan ministry experience.
NC/Raleigh (Raleigh) 27615 Father of gay son Pietrus, Joe [email protected] or 919-609-8425. Co-founder and former coordinator of Always Our Children support group, Cathedral of St. Matthew, Washington DC.
NC/Raleigh (Raleigh) 27613 Mother of lesbian daughter Whitehouse, Gladys [email protected] Involved with parish-based support group. Spiritual Director, Shalem Institute.
NE/Omaha (Omaha) 68130 Father of gay son Furlong, Jerry [email protected] 402-895-6386. Fortunate Families board member. Member of local area ministry, "Caring Catholic Families" and parish ministry. Created Let's Talk About Homosexuality - educational series. Wrote GLAAD series suggests ways to more effectively discuss issues of LGBT justice with undecided Americans; Catholic LGBT ministries address a particular need - often with the involvement of PFLAG people; Fortunate Families co-sponsors ad decrying action against children of lesbian couple
Nicaragua/Managua (Managua) Hippos Parents of lesbian daughter Walsh, Tom & Duarte, Julia [email protected] or [email protected] or +505 8432 6952. Tom is bilingual in English and Spanish; Julia prefers Spanish. Both experienced in parish LGBT ministry.
NJ/Pequannock (Paterson) 07440 Parents of gay son Restaino, Carmen & Cheryl [email protected] (Carmen) or [email protected] (Cheryl) or 973-633-6720. Carmen is a Roman Catholic permanent deacon. Cheryl is a retired teacher, and is active in PFLAG with experience in leading beginner's meetings. Cheryl wrote Being a Listening Parent
NY/Brooklyn (Brooklyn) 11238 Mother of lesbian daughter Palms. Rosemary Grebin [email protected] or 718-638-7365. Involved in parish LGBT ministry. Wrote: A ministry grows in Brooklyn
NY/Fairport (Rochester) 14450 Mother of lesbian daughters (2) Newman, Shirley [email protected] or 585-425-9347. Mother of 2 lesbian daughters. Stephen minister and teaching assistant experience. Wrote Speaking up
NY/Floral Park (Brooklyn) 11004 Parents of gay son Butvick, Bill & Kathryn [email protected] or [email protected] or 347-528-7165 (Bill) or 917-568-8687 (Kathryn). Kathryn is an RN with Ph.D. in Psychology.
NY/Rochester (Rochester) 14620 Parents of gay son Lopata, Casey & Mary Ellen [email protected] or 585-698-6100. Co-founders and board members of Fortunate Families. Casey has MDiv. Mary Ellen has MS in Liberal Arts with focus on homosexuality and the family. Together wrote Dear Pope... ; Suggestions for Addressing Gay and Lesbian Related Legislation.. Casey wrote: Can my son be Gay and Catholic?; Moral Values; Not Master Builders; and The sin of heterosexism?. Mary Ellen wrote God's Love Revealed: reflections on being a Catholic Mother
NY/Rochester (Rochester) 14623 Father of transgender m>f daughter Pickett, Bill [email protected] 585-442-3866. Advisor to Fortunate Families and webmaster. Wrote: A Parent's Perspective: Transsexual Identity and Wholeness
NY/Troy (Albany) 12180 Mother of gay son de Seve, Geri [email protected] or 518-272-4637 or 518-421-4723 (cell).
NY/Weedsport (Rochester) 13166 Parents of gay sons (2) Cichello, Eileen & Sam [email protected] or 315-834-9725. Have 2 gay sons.
OH/Brecksville (Cleveland) 44141 Mother of gay son Buccini, Marianne [email protected] or 440-759-8524. MSW. Community college counselor and LGBT Safe Zone trainer. PFLAG experience.
OH/Columbus (Columbus) 43085 Mother of gay son Barkhurst, Kathy [email protected] or 614-736-1256 (cell). Teacher and Newman community experience.
OH/Euclid (Cleveland) 44143 Mother of lesbian daughter Buchanan, Joyce [email protected] or 216-486-2176. Member of diocesan Gay and Lesbian Family Ministry Council, and speaker. Facilitator of parish parent support group.
OH/Gates Mills (Cleveland) 44040 Parents of lesbian daughter Hoenigman, Ann & Ed [email protected] or 440-449-1848. Active in parish-based parent support group. Ann wrote Parents of homosexuals speak in Catholic Schools in Cleveland Diocese. Ed wrote Emmaus Retreat presentation
Ohio/Cincinnati (Cincinnati ) 45247 Parents of lesbian daughter Dirr, Mike and Betty [email protected] or 513-385-3954 Participate in local parish support group for parents of LGBT children.
OR/Mt. Angel (Portland) 97362 Parents of lesbian daughters (2) (twins) Balog, Florence & Steve [email protected] or 503-845-7850. Co-founders of Welcoming the Whole Family in St. Andrew's Parish, Portland, OR. Florence wrote My Twin Lesbian Daughters. Also founded and facilitated a parents support group in the archdiocese. Steve wrote: The Light Has Been Passed ; A Story of Trust; A Reality Check; Assumptions; Being Called Out , Again; and A bruised reed he will not break...(Isaiah 42:3).
PA/Wynnewood (Philadelphia) 19096 Mother of gay son Cassidy, Susanne mailto:[email protected] or 610-649-0698. PFLAG experience.
TN/Memphis (Memphis) 38104 Parents of gay son Word, Deb & Steve [email protected] or 901-274-4039. Deb is a Fortunate Families board member. Part of the parent support team in diocesan ministry with gay and lesbian persons. Deb wrote: Parent's Journey; A Place at the Table; Offended by homily? Write!; Welcome to the (potluck) banquet; Dusty feet disciples; and Dear Bishop. Deb also writes a blog: This Catholic Mom
TX/Colleyville (Ft. Worth) 76034 Mother of gay son Rose, Dorene [email protected] or 817-329-7370. Member of Ft. Worth Diocese task force for ministry with GLBT community.
TX/ Cypress (Galveston/Houston) 77429 Father of gay son Pickard, Richard [email protected] or 281-225-6858 Bachelor of Business Administration; President Hearts for Peace for 10 yrs. Hearts for Peace held monthly masses at different parishes in G/H diocese with confession, rosary, and a speaker to pray for peace.
TX/McAllen (Brownsville) 78504 Parents of gay son Saavedra, David and Dora E. [email protected]; 956-345-5444 or [email protected]; 956-454-5501 David: Marriage and Family Therapist (bilingual English/Spanish) Dora: Communication Professor; fairly fluent in Spanish although predominant English speaker. Dora has 18 years working with youth ministry. Both active in a variety of social justice issues.
TX/Melissa (Dallas) 75454 Parents of gay son Dalke, Rich & Terri terrid9@earthlink.net or 972-837-2334. Leaders in "Outstretched Hands" -- parish-based group that supports GLBT Catholics and parents of GLBT persons, and provides education to the parish. Wrote: Blessings !!!
UT/Salt Lake City (Salt Lake) 84121 Mother of gay son Abele, Joan joancabele@gmail.com or 801-943-8111. Medical doctor. PFLAG experience. Wrote Story of a Listening Parent
VA/Haymarket (Arlington) 20169 Father of gay son Kehoe, Tom kehoetom@comcast.net or 703-753-2906. Co-founder of Catholic support group for GLBT persons and their families.
VA/Reston (Arlington) 20190 Parents of gay son Comiskey, Nancy and Bob robertcomiskey@yahoo.com or 571-643-0043 Participated in a support group for Catholic LGBT parents.
VA/Richmond/Henrico (Richmond) 23228 Mother of gay son Lowenhagen, Veronica veabl@aol.com or 804-241-8695. Parish work experience and volunteer experience with parish youth.
VT /Belmont (Burlington) 05730 Mother of bisexual daughter DeVine, Carol cgosedevine@yahoo.com or 802-259-2562 Retired Head of School for an independent elementary school in NYC. Member of the LGBT and Straight Ministry of St. Augustine's Church.
WA/Kirkland (Seattle) 98034 Mother of gay son Cass, Marilyn macass@comcast.net or 425-820-7466. PFLAG and Catholic parent support group experience.
WA/ Mercer Island (Seattle) 98040 Mother of lesbian daughter Connolly,Ann annconnolly@comcast.net or (206) 232-4143I am a practicing Catholic and am active in a parish in Bellevue, WA.
WI/Chetek (Superior) 54728 Parents of lesbian daughter Smith, Jim & Mary Jean Jim: wndpsalm@chibardun.net or 715-458-2224 or 715-642-3786 (cell). MA in pastoral ministry. Certified spiritual director. Extensive experience in parish and retreat house ministry, and as parish pastoral associate and pastoral administrator.
Mary: marijean@chibardun.net or 715-458-2224 or 715-642-3787 (cell). Nursing background. MA in pastoral ministry. Certificate in CPE (chaplain). Extensive experience in parish and retreat house ministry. Parish pastoral associate experience. Wrote Letters can make a difference
WI/De Pere (Green Bay) 54115 Parents of gay sons (2) Larkey, John & Loretta rettmac@aol.com or 920-336-8739. Have two gay sons. Members of St. Norbert College worshipping community. Loretta is a trained social worker and works as a psychotherapist.
WI/Hartford (Milwaukee) 53027 Parents of gay son Weber, Carol & Fred cweber@netwurx.net or 262-670-0448. Members of Gay and Straight in Christ a parish-based support group. Wrote Acceptance of a gay son
WI/Madison (Madison) 53705 Father of transgender f>m son Subkoviak, Mike subko@education.wisc.edu or 608-833-4249. Retired educational psychology professor.
WI/Madison (Madison) 53705 Mother of lesbian daughter Thomas, Chris clt@tds.net or 608-231-3086. Facilitated the organization of a parish parent support group. Wrote For thousands of years
WI/Tomah (LaCrosse) 54660 Mother of gay son Erickson, Rita arerick@centurytel.net or 608-374-2745 or 608-387-0714 (cell).
WI/Wauwatosa (Milwaukee) 53213 Father of lesbian daughter Staudenmaier, Bill 414-453-8561 or 414-227-1216 between 9 and 2. No email. Wrote "Dear Cardinal George"
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